Going on a Date With a Stranger....

Going on a Date With a Stranger....

There is this one flop most social media users misses when going on a date with someone they met through social media.
Some people's hook up joint is now facebook and twitter.. Once they get up in the morning they'll log onto facebook,twitter and other social medias and they'll start scouting for rich/handsome/beautiful boy/girl to go on a date with.
I am not against going out on a date with a social media friend, admirer or lover; what I am against is when people don't keep conversation open when going on a date. A girl that is "ON" should restrict herself from going on a date with a stranger. I also made an outline that before a lady will go out on a date with a stranger, she should have her full transport fare, to and fro, she should also have call card on her phone.. All these are for security reasons because you are meeting him for the first time and in order not to be a victim a little precaution always help.
That is not even why am punching on my phone this afternoon, what am writing is for people going on a date to keep conversation open especially when it has to do with the issue Sex.
Most girls shy away when Sex is being discussed, some ladies say Sex on a first date is not allowed but sometime they visit people on a first date and they end up having Sex against their wish and why is that? It is because you did not discuss it with him prior before coming.
An average Lagos guy will take you out to an eatery, buy you food, and the next thing is 'Let's go to my house' and when you go to his house what else do you expect two adults to be doing behind closed doors? Praise and worship? Of cause he'll want to get in there knowinfully well that he has spent on you and he does not want his money to go down the drain just like that.
We are Nigerian, we are black, we are not white; we are not as romantic as the whites.. Whites can date for years without initiating Sex but in 9ja 2 months is even too much to wait.
Know what and what awaits you before you go on a date with any stranger.. If you don't want Sex tell him plain blank before you visit him.
Don't be shy to say it.
Don't assum he is a gentle man, there is no gentle man when it comes to Sex; Men behave childish when it comes to Sex. They all want it and all the time.
There is this story one of my reader told me through BBM few months ago, she schooled in one of these Eastern versities, I don't want to mention the name of the school because my readers profile are always a top notch secret that I keep only to myself.
So she met this guys on fb, they got dating. The guy works in another state. They decided to meet and the lady travelled from her campus to meet the guy.. She was to spend the weekend with him.
When they met, the guy was very happy, pampared her and all that.. You know  guys always like to impress  ladies on a first outing or first meet.
When it was dusk; of cause they'll have to share a bed; the guy wanted to have his way with her and she refused him. She said immediatelly the guys mood change. He just faced the other side of the bed and slept off.
The guy was not violent but he kept to himself all through her stay with him. He did not try getting close to her, if he is going to work, he'll just drop money for feeding and he'll go and when he returns, he'll eat and then he'll sleep! No gisting or whatsoever? Why? Because she turned down his sexual advances.
She said the 2 days she spent with his was worst because she was just all by herself.. Immediately she left the guys house for her school, he called and ended the relationship right away.
So you see ladies, always ask. Nobody will beat you; like I said earlier, no man is a gentle man when it comes to Sex.. Good Evening Lovely People.