5 tips to spice up a relationship.

5 tips to spice up a relationship.

After you have been dating a while, 6 months, a year, two years, things may begin to feel somewhat routine, monotonous and in extreme cases boring. Both of you have eaten at almost every great restaurant in town, attended weddings, gone to the club, gotten drunk together, slept over and all the basic ‘couple’ activities.
It gets to a point where you just need something new, this works two ways. You can get someone new or find a way to make the best of who you’re with for a new experience. Relationships take work so effort must be made to keep things interesting, here are some pointers.
1. Be spontaneous: If during your lunch break you want to have lunch with The Boo, then do it. Surprise them at work; send them unexpected gifts that’ll blow them away, its thoughtful and sweet.
2. Try something new: Go out and do something you wouldn’t ordinarily do, go watch a soccer match with your boyfriend, shop for each other, sky diving, go on a boat ride etc
3. Revamp your sex life : Try something new in bed, read the Karma Sutra ,Act out your sexual fantasies, explore your fetishes, try a new position every week, have a threesome, role playing, Spontaneous sex in random places, the bed gets boring after a while.
4. Be nomads in love: Take a trip to nowhere! Just drive without a planned destination. Have fun while doing it, play music, tell stories, eat cookies, do whatever!
5. Home cooked meal: For change, ditch eating at a fancy restaurant, both of you should make a meal together, doesn’t have to be anything complex. Make it playful, a few pecks here and there during the preparation, splash water on each other, make out in the kitchen if it leads to that. Ultimately have fun and eat.